- Though addicts vary in gender, age, sexual orientation, etc., there were more similarities than differences between them.
- All of the addicts studied continued sexual behaviors despite the negative consequences to their relationships, and this behavior generally resulted in further shame and isolation.
- Addicts regularly hid their addiction in hopes to avoid further harm to the relationship, however, this can cause even more problems.
- “If therapists discount the partner's concerns in an attempt to be nonjudgmental about the sexual behaviors, the partner may feel further isolated.”
- Reports on partners of sex addicts suggest disclosure is both necessary and helpful for resolving and improving the relationship long-term.
- Though couple sessions can be helpful, individual sessions with the partners of addicts are important to de-escalate negative emotions.
- Making threats to the sex addict often are ineffective to the negative behavior discontinuing.
- Combating isolation through increased time with the family and potentially increased prayer and scripture study was found to be beneficial.
- “Couple therapy should include both individual recovery (for the addict and partner) and couple issues (stabilization) simultaneously.”